Social distancing doesn’t mean proper etiquette and manners stop. Also, it doesn’t mean that children ignore proper etiquette and forget their manners. However, there is no code of behavior for social distancing. The simple handshake or touching someone’s shoulder or petting a person’s pet is not part of social distancing.
There are still many ways to display proper manners while children keep their distance from peers and adults.
• One way is to teach children that words matter. Communication is important. Whether at a distance or on social media, verbal or written communication is important. A mask prevents body language. Therefore, spoken words are necessary. However, remember tone and eye contact also convey proper manners. When no mask is worn, a person can see a smile and a wave at a distance.
• Another way to display a common courtesy is to create a space for a passerby. Outside recreation is important to everyone. Even with walking or running, a safe distance is necessary. Modeling and examples are important to show respect for others.
• Teach children to extend a greeting as they see someone. Especially, a greeting to someone they know is very important. It demonstrates good social manners.
Social Distancing Manners With Shelter-In
Proper etiquette and good manners are important to practice in the home. These are important to teach as part of homeschooling. Offer tissues or sanitizer to members of the family as the need arises. Also, a reminder to wash hands before and after eating is helpful. As children reach for a toy or food at the dinner table, reminders to use proper requests, and a thank you when necessary. Teaching children to show compassion towards others is impactful. Compassion for others gets everyone through a crisis. Also, listen to a person as they talk or tell a story.
This virus impacts both adults and children in various ways. Children must learn to understand the feelings of others. To teach and have children learn proper manners and proper etiquette is a part of development. Children must learn proper manners and etiquette so they display them in the future. Thus, when life finally returns to normal or a new normal, children can apply what’s learned.
